Violence in the family

                 Life is very complex for people. Some people live with happiness, but the others live with sad. Some families have violence that is the main problem for them. There are some cause of problems as jealousy, alcoholism, and poverty.

               Some problems in the family start with a simple thing. When husband or wife feels jealous, argument would happen immediately. Couple should understand their mind from each other. They need to think carefully before doing something. Doing something depend on feeling is a kind of problem. Sometime, the matter is small, but we make it bigger and bigger and it become a serious situation that is difficult to rescue. Living together should be confident with family members. We should not believe any thing that we do not see from our eyes. It would be great if we are not jealous with a simple case.

                 Secondly, using alcohol also cause violence in the family. When man is drunk, he can not control his feeling. He would do anything that we can not expect. The behavior of him changes completely. This is the cause that he fights his wife, children and damages the property in the house. It is a serious case if there is not a suitable solution for this matter. The whole family would not happy and live with tear. In order to avoid this case, we should balance to drink alcohol because use it too much also damage our health as well.

                 Thirdly, poverty is also the root of violence in the family too. The members in poor family have low education.  They do not think deeply before making decision. They just follow their feeling and do not consider about the result. They want to win at the time that the problem happens. When matter occurs, they can not control their feeling. Normally, they only demonstrate on themselves and not care bout the others’ mind. For this case, they do not calm down for each other. Sometime, the trouble becomes worst and worst from day to day. One thing, in poor family has much free time than middle class and high class family. Frequently, they stay at home and just the weak point of family’s members. They do not spend time to earn their living, but just stay freely. It also causes the problem in the family as well.

                 In short, people should avoid three main bad points such as jealously, alcoholism and poverty to stop the violence in the family. The results of the violence are sadness, unhappiness, and so on. We should think carefully before deciding to do something. Understanding the others’ feeling can reduce the problem to. Happiness family makes all members happy and warm. We should consider all family members’ ideas to avoid problem in the family.