Making Friends

            Men always live together from prehistory until today. Nobody can live alone. People usually ask for help from each other when they need. In order to get help, they start to make friends together. In the way of choosing acquaintance, some people prefer to choose friends who are similar to themselves, while the other would like friends who are different from themselves.

            First of all, friends who have similar character to us could be good corporation. In order to carry out a task, we need help from someone to accurate the work more effectively. According to this process, partner or colleague who has equal ability and knowledge to us would make our work successful and appreciate from people in the society. Moreover, when we have solideration we would reach victory. Obviously, at work place and school when we have worked or assignment we real need friend to support us. For example some tasks or school works which take a lot of time and money, we certainly need someone to find of information as well as sharing money. Therefore, friends who have similar manner to us are really important for our study and working lives. Corporation guide us to reach the goal that we want.

            In addition, to live together smoothly and happily, we should live with friends who have similar living style or manner. For some students who have to study away from their houses they need friends to stay with them to share expenditure on rent house and daily food. During this period, friends who have similar behavior would live together and step forward to success in their study.  It means that people who live in one house they should help each other to cook meal, tidy room respect each other that relate to study. More importantly, people who have missioned to complete his work away from home and those works demand them to work in group. So those who have similar attitude would achieve their tasks on time. For instant, when they go to work at the far place or countryside they need to study together one place to discuss about work find strategies to resist the problem that would happen. In this case, if they study separately their work would collapse. These are the reasons that we need to choose friends who like to do the same thing to us.

Finally, the last point of making friend who are similar to us, we would get support and encouragement from them. Agreement really express our real ability and confident from each other. Setting up a business plan, we surely need their concept and suggestion to stand for our plan. More than that, they would support their money to join with us too. Due to their recommend, we would find new concepts to develop in our business to get more profit. At the same condition, we would be ready to compete with our rivals and we also reduce risk of our business in a large amount. Anyway, if we have a plan to tour together, we would find some places where we want to go together happily. Moreover, we would not feel regretful on our expense. This is the reasonable factor that we need to make similar friends.

            However, making similar friends also have some problems. We would have little change to improve our self. Because of we often get appreciation or agreement and we rarely face any argument on our decision, we actually encounter any problems some day. In contrast, we would exchange our experience and knowledge with friends who are different. We would learn about our weakness and strength that would help us to improve our capacity. Due to, people always have their own strength, we would combine those of them to reach the perfect success. Otherwise, we share or exchange our own experience to serve as concept for the future. Therefore, if we do not make different friends, we never know about our weakness and lose chance to study new thing.

            In short, both ideas are mentioned about have their own evidence. Making friends who are different really help us learn about ourselves more clearly, but having friends who are similar, it is really more important when we want to have someone who know about our heart and live together forever. Therefore, we should thing about balance between disadvantage and advantage before making up our mind without regretful next time. We will make confusion if we do not consider all things.