The impact of violence in the family

            The result of argument would bring bad effect to parties who participate in this action. It would be great when people live in the society stop fighting each other by small problem. They should talk to find suitable solution; it is a good choice for them. Similar to this, the violence in the family also cause some troubles such unhappiness, poverty and destroying children’s future.

            To begin with, the violence in family really causes unhappiness. The parents may fight each other everyday. They can not find solution through talking. They just use their power to solve the problem. It tends to more serious case because they follow this way. They can use smoothly words to each other. They only produce bad words on each side. They situation would up to worse and worse. The family member can not warm, especially the children who really need their parents take care them. They meet only pain with tear in their family. They may not laugh and smile during their tear drop down. They hurt in their heart, and they would not get hope in their mind. It really damages the children feeling because they are too young. They can not face this bad circumstance. They would be afraid of people around them accurately.

            Moreover, family that has violence normally meets poverty. They do not have time to earn money. They spend most of the time to shout to each other. They do not think about their business or make income. They just want to win on each side, so they do not care about other things. They do not worry the problems that are in front of them at all. Their minds focus the argument one thing. One more point, they really destroy something around them when there is a fighting happen. It is also one part that they would be poor because they smash their properties that they spend energy to get them. The result of argument is loss not profit.

            What is more, parents also destroy their children’s future when they cause the quarrel. They would not have ability to send their children to study higher. There are many problems happen in their family. The children also do not have intention to learn. They see the bad image from their parents. They are difficult to face the troubles in their family. They can not balance the issues and their study. They need warm from their parents not bad words that they hear everyday from their parents. Violence in the family really destroys children’s future.

        In conclusion, unhappiness, poverty and destroying children’s future cause from the violence in the family. To due to point, people in the society should avoid it to get happiness in their family. They should try to earn money to support their family. Their children need money for their study. They should talk softly when this is problem occur, and fighting is not a solution.